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The Six Realms as Psychological States

The Six Realms as Psychological States © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Although Tibetan Buddhism has depicted the six Realms as actual places we go to after our death as humans, many people, including me, don’t think of them as material locations but rather …

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Is The Success Rate For Marriage Counseling Predictable?

Is The Success Rate For Marriage Counseling Predictable? © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Although it is impossible to accurately predict whether or not marriage counseling will heal your relationship, there are predictive factors as shown by the renowned marriage researcher, John Gottman, Ph.D. …

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Fellowship of the Rings: Common Sense Wisdom for Lasting Marriages: Part 1

Fellowship of the Rings: Common Sense Wisdom for Lasting Marriages: Part 1 By: Kirk Lamb, PhD., LP, Licensed Psychologist © 2005 – 2018 Kirk Lamb, Ph.D., Author, for text, drawings, and photographs © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Note: This marriage and couples relationship …

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Adler’s & Jung’s Insights for Artistically Creating Your Life: Part 1

Adler’s & Jung’s Insights for Artistically Creating Your Life: Part 1 © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor In May of 2016 I presented Adler’s & Jung’s Insights for Artistically Creating Your Life to the 64th annual conference of the North American Society of Adlerian …

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Communicate Frustration to Your Husband, Wife or Romantic Partner Without an Argument

Communicate Frustration to Your Husband, Wife or Romantic Partner Without an Argument © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Married, engaged, and partnered couples aren’t exempt from feeling frustrated or upset with their partner at one time or another. When romantic couples frequently deal with …

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Journaling or Brain Downloading

Journaling or Brain Downloading © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor This information can help transform worry and ruminating thoughts into productive thinking. With stress, worry and anxiety, your entire body contracts and tightens up. A root cause of stress is repetitive, anxiety-filled thoughts. When …

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Adler’s & Jung’s Insights for Artistically Creating Your Life: Part 2

Adler’s & Jung’s Insights for Artistically Creating Your Life: Part 2 © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor In May of 2016 I presented Adler’s & Jung’s Insights for Artistically Creating Your Life to the 64th annual conference of the North American Society of Adlerian …

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Fellowship of the Rings: Common Sense Wisdom for Lasting Marriages: Part 2

Fellowship of the Rings: Common Sense Wisdom for Lasting Marriages: Part 2 By: Kirk Lamb, PhD., LP, Licensed Psychologist © 2005 – 2018 Kirk Lamb, Ph.D., Author, for text, drawings, and photographs © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Note: This marriage and couples relationship …

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How Career Counseling Helps Women Advance Their Careers

How Career Counseling Helps Women Advance Their Careers © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Almost all working women want to advance their careers, but what sets successful women apart? Often, the key to career advancement can be as simple as a well-laid plan. But …

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4 Helpful Couples Communication Tips on Perspective

4 Helpful Couples Communication Tips on Perspective © 2023  Bonnett Chandler, MA, LPCC, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor Richard Chandler, MA, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor Embracing the Perspective of Your Wife, Husband or Romantic Partner Learning to understand and appreciate your wife, husband, or romantic partner’s perspective is an essential skill. Your mutual happiness depends on …

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